Have you ever doubted your worth? Have that ever crossed your mind? Well, I’ve.
What I’ve done to gain confidence to say: ‘I AM WHO I AM’ today.
The way you treat or see yourself sets the tone for how other people treat and see you.
To receive a positive outcome, you can not give a negative effort. Likewise, to receive good vibes from others, you NEED to feel good within yourself .well that’s hard because everyday, we are constantly fighting a battle against NEGATIVITY . But by simply repeating positive affirmations and embracing who you’re, you’re going to start feeling like a QUEEN . And that’s one of the best ways to gain confidence .
Know yourself what you stand for and who you are.
How can life be an adventure if you have no goals? Same goes for you! How can you be confident if you don’t know what defines you, by knowing yourself , you’re showing to others that you MATTER and that it’s good to have different points of view.
There are many ways to know who you really are……
Spend some alone time.
Write new ideas in a journal.
Discover a new genre of music
Well it’s a long process, but in the end, you will see what really matters to you.
Comparing yourself to others is extremely toxic.
Comparing to others is something we tend to do, and a habit we should stop. Whenever we see someone who’s prettier , or smarter , we start feeling low, having that “i will never be like her” mentality. First you can not compare your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 20. you can’t compare your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 1. We’re all unique and different, just like plants, and each person has different growth paces. that’s why to be confident you need to stay in your lane.
Being confident doesn’t mean you are superior , and others around are piece of trash. It’s the opposite of confident. That’s being arrogant and selfish.
gaining confidence is a huge process, so don’t think you can achieve it overnight. If you have to fake it to make it, do it.